Monday, September 10, 2007
Personality ~ Character
Have nothing much to write abt... Holidays has nothing much =(
so write what i feel about " personality" & "Character".
Personality: "Face" we show to others.
Character : Our " civilized " temperament.
(above, from my lecture notes).
Recently watched some TV programmes and i learnt more abt personality and character.
Personality... Something like how u wanna portray urself to the other people.
Somehow its like our outer skin. In reality, you might realise that we humans are actually somehow similar to Chameleon AKA 变色龙.
We could actually change our personality when we meet different people.
For instance, u become generous and caring when you are dating someone u like... to make him/her feels good abt you.
Yet, when u are with ur best buddies, u become the jovial, crazy, petty or demanding, becos they are the ones that know u very well.
Tho it was said this way, people do have the same personality all the way...
do believe that some ppl have a very good and friendly personality...
but often they can be misunderstood or jealous abt... and think that they are FAKE.
Personality lets ppl get to know u on the first sight...
therefore its inevitable to have ppl who put up a nice personality...
but when you actually get to know him... its just pure rotten within the character.
A good first impression would be excellence...
but do not overly judged a person just by the personality( cover of book ).
Of cos changing and becoming a new personality is always a way to improve ur overall self =)
Character...Your closest buddies and family would know best... It is somehow being bornt with, but it can also change as u face the obstacles in life... Either you moved on to become better or you are just falling into the worst..
Some ppl just does not have the outer package... but they can be very sweet inside...
ppl might just being misunderstood abt being fierce, gloomy, nerdy, unfriendly... watever...
Once u actually get together and live along with them... they might become the funniest person, entertaining... that may also makes ur best friends for life.
On the other side, some maybe friendly and sweet, but the character might just become a beast and eat you up.
Different ppl would like different characters too, some might even like beasts O.O
but thats how u build up strong friendships too...
Above might be a long composition for people, but thats wat i like to write abt...
through experiences, i think most ppl would think i do not have a very well packaged personality... perhaps move conversations would let you know more abt me...
i will know more abt people too! •.•
晴天雨
11:10 PM
